Posted in Dating, Rants

You lie like a rug!

Yep you suck! I waited a few days before posting this blog because I am respectful and also because I wanted to give this man a chance to apologize for his behavior. However, no apology has been forthcoming so as they say in church, “the truth will set you free”. LOL You suck and you know who you are!


I recently went to meet someone. You know the story, you meet online (who doesn’t anymore?) and I started talking to this goodlooking man (who I thought was an awesome guy). He told me he didn’t care I was a plus size girl and that size is not a factor for him nor does it determine beauty in “his eyes”. He said “beauty is truly within”. LOL right!

This man even asked for recent pics which I sent to him gladly. He told me he couldn’t wait to meet me because I was beautiful. He told me he would be setting “the bar high” and that no other man would or could compare.  LOL OK! We talked every night for hours all week and then he invited me to his place for the weekend. I accepted. I was finally excited to be meeting someone I thought was special.

When I arrived at his place I was excited. I mean after seeking for so long this might be the man for me. I was wrong! Over the course of the weekend I learned you lie like a rug. Yep, I said it, you lie like a rug!

When I showed up at his place I did not bring my stuff in and instead wanted to ensure him and I were “ok” upon meeting. I knew that if I simply just waited I would have my answer soon enough. He was happy and outgoing and said he was glad I was finally here. I told him the same and I knew then this would be a great weekend. I also stated I did not bring my stuff in until I knew he wanted me there as I knew I could simply get in my car and go home. He asked, yes ASKED, me to bring my stuff in and I did. 

Needless to say, this weekend turned out to be an eye opener for me. It finally drives home the fact that I am usually right about “certain” men being players. Yep, deny it all you want but you are a player. This man was just smoother at it because I had no idea he was not even attracted to me. It makes me cringe to think men like this exist. You SUCK!

I will not go on, as I just found out, by him personally, that he was not ever attracted to me. You see I just got through texting him where he admitted that he was not sexually attracted to me yet he sure seemed the opposite during my visit. I guess my indication should have been the standard for this “type of man” who are usually PLAYERS.

And of course, I am right. You are a player! Dating has changed, this is for sure, but why lie like the rug you are? There is a reason you are alone “Mr. I Don’t want my heart-broken”.  Duh! LOL and its laughable that you honestly think anyone of quality would stay with you being this way. You SUCK!

Yea, I am a little pissed and I have every right to be. I did not lie and I was true to everything I said and did. I do not play games and I communicate effectively. So what’s your excuse? Oh wait, you have none! You are a liar and a player. You will get exactly what you give; NOTHING. You do indeed SUCK!

Bonus Rant:

A few previous men I have dated recently contacted me. I am sick of you telling me, “I am the one that got away.”

I am responding to all of you with this, “I am not the the one who got away. I let you go.”

Good riddence!

By the way, you SUCK too!


I am the person who gives excellent advice. Yes, I am that good! I am a writer, a mom, a Nana (yes hard to believe I know!), a professional, educated, and has the ability to look at anything objectively. I write about everything and anything. I do this because there are many facets in my life. I am also a Coffee Lover and that alone makes me awesome. ~Me

9 thoughts on “You lie like a rug!

  1. Sorry to hear that you got played, but it kinda sounded sketchy from the beginning that you had never met him and he invited you to his house for the weekend. A guy looking to get laid will always try and get you to his house right away. One who isn’t will take you out on a real date a few times before trying to take you home. Hope you have better luck next time!

  2. Women are even worse! The ones who present themselves as strong, independent, and free-spirited turn out to be the most needy, co-dependent, and emotionally damaged of all. Chameleons! Hermitism sounds pretty good in comparison.

    1. I can understand that Grant. But guess what? This man said he liked a strong independent etc…woman, and when we met, he thought I was too much of a leader, too bold, and way too independent. LOL so your damned if you do and your damned if you don’t. One thing I do know; I was honest, open, and probably more real than most “needy, co-dependent or emotionally damaged” women. It’s just frustrating dating or getting to know someone when you are a busy professional. Sigh…thanks for commenting though! 🙂

  3. Remember that GOD is the answer to many of life’s problems. You will never find the same PURE love anywhere else. If your “rant” made you feel better, then you are lying to yourself, because then pain is still there.
    Will you aver find the love you are looking for from a man? I do not know, but I do know you will find it in The Arms of God. Take time to find a good church that you feel God has touched with His Hand.
    I will keep you, others like you, and others that have felt your pain,in prayer.

    In His Service
    Pastor Mark Wilkinson

    1. I can certainly understand your point Mark. However, I already know that no man can fully satisfy me. What I don’t understand is why I am lied too or deceived. It’s all good though as I know my rant will make a difference; not only in myself but in the person who it was meant for. Yes it did make me feel better. Thank you for your comments. 🙂

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